I and my kitten have found this app called cozi. It is a calendar that is shared between our devices and can be scheduled with important events that she may need encouragement with, help remembering doing, or that are needed doing for Daddy. Fun and useful for Daddy’s as well.
There are also todo lists that can be created and shared for any aspect of your lives.
Kitten loves the motivation and structure that it has recently brought to the dynamic. Of course we spoke about implementing it before going through with it. So far she has gained much praise and no punishments.